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Traditional Dating

The traditional dating model is flawed. Dinner dates equals less success. - pg 6

The traditional nice guy vs. the bad boy when it comes to women. - pg 8

Where to find women online. Hotornot, Craigslist, Myspace, Match, Chat and other dating sites. - pg 10

Hotornot intro and tips to maximize your success. - pg. 12

Myspace intro, creating profile, and tips. The ins and outs of Myspace and how to display social proof or create the illusion of it. - pg. 13

Meeting women on Skype. - pg. 17

Online Personal Ads

Creating a Creative Ad

Creating a creative Craigslist online personals ad that stands out from others. Be specific about what you want to draw gems. - pg 18

Increasing your value by acting picky in your profile or ad about who and what type of woman you want. - pg 19

Learn how to play like you are "very busy" in your ads to get her to like you and respond quickly. - pg 20

Act like a bad ass in your ads to draw sexual women. - pg 22

Responding to Ads

Ignoring what women say they want in their ads. How women say they want one thing but don't really mean it. - pg 24

How to make your emails literally stand out from the others by making changes to your email name, and message subject. - pg 25

How to use cocky and funny on a girl when responding to her ad or profile. - pg 26

Communicating with baited assumptive comments to draw a response back from her. - pg 27

Tracking Your Ads

How to track your online profile or ads with a hit or page tracker. -pg 31

Meet women from the comfort of your home without having to set a single foot outside. - pg 33

Communicating With Women

Unique way of drawing the truth out from a woman for qualifying and filtering purposes. - pg 35

How to get her to call you instead of you calling her to put the power advantage on your side. - pg 35

Most guys scare women off with sexual details way too soon. - pg 36

How to qualify her by playing games so that she starts to qualify herself to you and not the other way around. - pg 35

Get her to come over by telling her to come over rather than asking her. - pg 38

Confidence vs. Cockiness and how both can be effective at sparking attraction with women. - pg 39

Cocky people assume things will happen rather than asking for the result. - pg 39

The Neg

How to use the Neg to break down a woman's defenses or bitch shield. - pg. 39

How to determine your value # and how it relates to a woman's number. - pg. 40

Negs work to lower a woman's value number in relation to a man's making her more receptive to your advances. - pg. 41

Many guys fail to understand the neg because the naturally think that it is degrading to women. - pg. 41

Using Stories

The use of creative stories is a right brained activity that women really love. - pg. 42

Most guys mistakenly ask boring questions about daily life that turns women off. - pg. 42

Emotional Roller Coaster

Learn how to put women through an emotional roller coaster to give her awesome feelings. - pg 42

The emotional roller coaster gives highs and lows similiar to gambling. - pg 43

Ordinary vs Untypical Communication

Most men are ordinary in their communications with women and are very complimentary. - pg. 44

Untypical communications make fun of her rather than complimenting her: uncool, stupid, wrong, bad, etc. - pg. 44

Negative communications makes her feel vulnerable and helps to define male/female roles. - pg 45

Misinterpret what she says so that what she says she doesn't like, you say, "so you like (whatever she dislikes)." - pg. 45

Too many guys are serious in their IMs, be relaxed and playful with her and she will love you for it. - pg. 46

Using exaggeration of the nice guy messages will get her laughing and responding back to you. - pg. 47

Trying to make her seem bad, improper or perverted are parts of untypical communications. pg - 48

Every one of her assets should have a counterweight making it a liability for you to make fun of her with. - pg 48

Use killer power play examples to show your confidence and boost your value number with her.. - pg 49

Communicating Sexual Interest

Chat too long with her without showing sexual interest and you become just one of her regular friends. - pg 50

Volunteering too much sexual interest early and you become a pervert or creepy. - pg 50

You can keep her working hard by showing disinterest as well as interest in her sexually. - pg. 51

If you don't show a clear "I want you" but give her clues, she will take this as a challenge to get you to like her which creates attraction. -pg. 51

Chatting Over IM

Be demanding when chatting with girls over IM; tell them that they are boring you, type faster, etc. - pg. 52

Be forgetful and misinterpret or forget info including her name, what she does, looks like, or other things. - pg. 52

Start qualifying her right off the bat and act disappointed with her answers or be ambiguous with your feelings. - pg. 52

Learn to steer your conversations away from boring questions or too many qualifying questions about you. - pg. 53

Use jokes and misinterpretations to steer the conversation your way. - pg 53

Using assumptive communications to draw the truth out from her about important qualifiers for you. - pg. 53

Finding out if she really likes you or is just using you for entertainment. - pg. 54

Talking Over The Phone

Use IM bridge to make the link from IM to phone seamless. - pg. 55

Make fun of her over the phone to get her playful side to come out. -pg 55

Inviting her over to your place. -pg. 56

Chat Rooms

Getting around chat room spam. - pg. 57

Finding the best chat rooms. -pg. 57

Effectively getting someone to respond to your chat room message. - pg. 58

Finding live people in chat rooms. - pg. 59

Getting real people to respond. - pg. 61

Tools for blocking spammers and fake users. - pg 62.

Verifying & Filtering

Filtering out low class women. - pg. 64

Be wary of weird camera angles. - pg 64

Chatting Live in Person

Joking with her. - pg. 66

Thought provoking questions.. you know what they say about.... - pg. 66

Flipping her off. - pg. 66

Teasing her to make her want you. - pg. 66

Difference Between Men & Women

Social Maturity, Comfort and Attraction. - pg 67

How women view sex and how men view it. - pg 67

Right versus left brain activity men and women. - pg 67

Stereotypes About Nice Women

Nice women are no more respectful than other women. - pg. 69

What women say they want isn't what they really want. - pg. 69

Getting Her Attracted To You

Making her feel comfortable. - pg. 70

Things not to do. - pg. 70

Negging her. - pg. 71

The Master Neg Table (body negs, sexuality, style, body language, love, intelligence, imagination, job, childish, importance, gender) - pg. 71-75

Keeping her in an uncertain state about whether you like her. - pg. 74

Giving her emotions and taking it away. - pg. 75

Never give her too much attention at once. - pg. 75

Dodge her questions and only answer what you want. - pg 75.

Don't brag. - pg. 75

Making fun of her image. - pg. 76.

If she asks for your opinion, give her the negative. - pg 77

Don't back down and apologize if she gets offended. - pg 77

Bad Boy Attraction

Woman when most fertile prefer the most masculine men. - pg 80

Highlighting masculine feature and traits to get women online. - pg 81

Power

Power is getting what you want. - pg 84

Women make up for lack of physical strength with social intelligence. - pg 84

Women respond really well to powerful men. - pg 84

How to have powerful body posture. - pg 84

What to do when a woman tries to qualify you. - pg. 85

Learn how to end conversations first to maximize your power. - pg 86

Tell her to leave before she has the chance to. - pg. 86

Fun power plays (kicking her off bed, flipping off, etc) - pg 86

When to respond back after you have met her. - pg 87

How powerful men carry themselves in public. - pg. 88.

The irrational side of women is attracted to bad boys, not the rational side. - pg 89

Guys that forget about power levels get pussy whipped. - pg 90

The Tactics Women Use to Control Men

Acting scared, or weak to get man to respond. - pg. 92

Complimenting him for a decision she really made. - pg 93

Complimenting him for doing something in order to get him to do other things. - pg 93

Having him wait on her. - pg 93

Withdrawing, acting upset, tantrums. - pg 93

What a Woman Wants

What a woman doesn't want. - pg 94

Clingy women. - pg 95

Masculinity & Peacock Theory. - pg 95

Be a Man

Using assertive communications. - pg 96

Always being right. - pg 96

Women Are Flexible

Cold one moment, hot the next. - pg 97

How Much Are You Worth

Your social value. - pg. 99

Telling stories to raise social value. - pg 99

Using props to raise social value. - pg 100

Value Level Breakdown. - pg 101

Massages

Massages are great step between foreplay and sex. - pg 102

Where and how to massage her. - pg 103

Three person massage. - pg 104

Preparing

Preparing yourself. - pg 105

Preparing your place. - pg 105

Strategically placed items, snacks, and drinks. - pg 107

Keeping Her From Flaking on You

Setting the right framework. - pg. 109

Postponing meetings. - pg. 110

Last minute auto-flake. - pg. 110

Avoiding Fri, Sat, and Sundays. - pg. 110

Dealing with Younger Women

Don't pull out all of your tricks on an 18yr old. - pg 111

Age and social maturity level. - pg 111

A girl's background and social maturity. - pg 111

How Much will it Cost?

The amount you spend is inversely related to confidence level. - pg 113

Getting her to bring things over . - pg. 114

Whether to Go All The Way or Not

Buyers Remorse and how to avoid it. - pg. 115

Time it take from sex, start to finish. - pg 114

The 7hr rule. - pg 115

Conditions to break the 7hr rule. - pg 116

Buyer's Remorse and LMR Busters

Being too aggressive and LMR. - pg 119

Reverse role playing. - pg 119

Slowing up advancing. - pg 120

False Time Constraints

Using scarcity to raise your value. - pg. 122

Using false time constraints online. -pg 123

The Types of Women you Meet Online

Today vs 10 yrs ago. - pg. 123

The negatives: fake profiles, bots and users. - pg 125

Breakdown of types you find online: - pg. 126

Avoid Screw-ups

Sticking to the framework. - pg. 127

Be a man. - pg 128

Always know the answers. - pg 129

Invite her over non-sexually. - pg 130

Dealing with Prudes

Making the best of a bad situation. - pg. 130

LMR Busters. - pg 130

Opening her up table. - pg 131

Managing Time and Dealing with Rejection

When to cut a girl off from further communication. - pg 133

Don't get caught up in one woman. - pg. 134

Safety Tips

Never invite a questionable person over to your place. - pg. 135

Bonus Chapters

The Jealousy Plot

Online, over the phone or in person. - pg. 136

The other girl on phone call. - pg. 137

Using a female wing. - pg. 137

Myspace Tricks

Removing her from your friends list. - pg. 138

Having Sex With Her in 4 hrs or less

Determining if you want her more than once or not. - pg 140

Building comfort. - pg 140

Using false time constraints. - pg. 141

Actual Chat (IM) Conversations

Sexual Secrets

Foreplay Comfort Building examples: - pg 191

Foreplay. - pg 192.

Playing and Tickling. - pg 193

Being Creative. - pg 196

Being Confidant. - pg 196

Being Dominant and Examples. - pg 197

Dominating fantasy. - pg 197

The Forbidden Fantasy. pg 201